Life has a way of working it self out when one accepts "what is" and moves forward.
One must consider whether a spell activities harm another and what will rebound back upon yourself. Most witches seek to reach back into our history to release forces that have the power to support, to teach and guide for the good of all.
Others breakdown structures, peace and equilibrium and the outcome only serves one. They practise magic, that which injures another and intends to do harm in various degrees. A manipulative, self-serving, ego-driven individual. They will twist words and actions to their own advantage.
To procure the dissolving of bewitching or constrain, the best magic to use as a defense is love. Happiness is love, unselfish and good. If you allow goodness, kindness and love function within one could break the spell without being harmed.
You need to utilize an equivalent positive power against the negative. The positive energy will change that which was done. Three days before, the day of and three days after the Full Moon light a white candle, and then stare into the flame. Build up the positive power by concentrating on your goal.
Elemental Spirits, Spirit Guides who aid in my work hear my call join me. Help me neutralize negative energy directed toward me.
This I pray - THE ONE WHO FORGES, WHO BEWITCHES,
THE MALEVOLENT ASPECT,
THE EVIL EYE, THE MALEVOLENT LIP, THE FINEST SORCERY,
SPIRIT OF EARTH, REMEMBER,
SPIRIT OF WIND, REMEMBER,
SPIRIT OF FIRE, REMEMBER,
SPIRIT OF WATER, REMEMBER,
INTERVENE, REVERSE THE NEGATIVE POWER,
NEUTRALIZE, THE WITCH OR WIZARD WHO SEEKS TO CAUSE HARM,
AS THE SUN RISES, AND TAKES AWAY THE LUSTRE OF THE STARS,
THUS TAKE AWAY THEIR STRENGTH,
TAKE AWAY THEIR EVIL INTENTIONS,
LIKE THE SUN TAKES AWAY THE HOLD ON THEIR SLEEP,
IN THE LIGHT OF DAY,
BURN AWAY THE POWER OF THEIR CURSE.
Repeat the incantation three times. In your mind picture you accomplishing that which you set out to do. The constraint broken.
Elemental Spirits, Spirit Guides who aid me in my work go in peace unto the places where they dwell. Be well. May peace go with you and please be ready to come whensoever I shall call upon them. BLESSED BE.