Why? Because people do what they do and sh-- happens!
Today is a good day, love, it is all in my mind and heart.
We all get caught up in how we want to handle the situation and we forget how the other person wants to deal with it.
If you were blindsided, remember everything happens in life, happens for your benefit - it was suppose to happen. Even if the experience at the time was confusing, the experience happened for a reason. The truth came out.
It can be difficult when you worked hard at your career and then are past over for the promotion or it can be hard on the heart when the person you care for decided on someone else.
This was a transformation you needed to go through. When you come to a fork in the road take it. Uh? Living in the moment means not getting caught up in the outcome and it can be a big gamble. If you live your life with integrity - living in your truth (what is best for YOU and all involved) the path is an easy choice. If not instant gratification so much can and will go wrong.
Life is full of rejection and disappointments, but if you don't take risks how much fun would life really be?!
Here is a solution you might consider. There is a time and place for everything. If the conflict is small, then by all means solve the difficulties on your lunch break. Those bigger issues privacy is best - one on one, where you can ( effusive) pour forth one's emotions and thoughts freely. The walls have ears :)
If you truly believe in your mind and feel it in your heart that you both have learned something positive from the experience, then come together, forgive, forget, let go to move forward with a more mutual understanding.
Until then, Ladies, don't loose the pretty, and gentlemen behave yourselves.
Light and Love ;)