Communication is key to any solid relationship. If you don't speak your mind people don't know your expectations. You can't assume - it will make an a-- of you. What we need, what we like and what we expect in the relationship must be discussed to build trust and understanding.
People have good and bad experiences in life. Close friendships, long term companions, and committed relationships is where education takes place. In a sense we teach each other while each learns from one another. The more relationships one has, the more one learns about self and the better one can relate to others.
No human is perfect. We all make mistakes in relationships. To create a bond there needs to be an attachment from esteem and mutual behavior or attitudes to build a solid relationship. To form a solid foundation each ingredient or action behind, Love, Loyalty, Trust, Integrity, and Truth are essential.
Our relationships with one another are an investment built on a fondness which delights, devoted attachment, firm allegiance, confident expectation, honesty and an agreement with reality. When one breaks the agreement, not being honest, not staying true to one's commitments, the trust is destroyed and in return, the person who felt loved and valued no longer feels special. Honoring commitments, being consistent, being true to one's word shows strong character, and a true friend.
We are here on earth in physical form to experience life, creating bonds through thought and touch. Every experience lived, positive or negative, becomes part of who you are, making you a stronger person within yourself, affecting all who enter your life.
We are all alive to learn lessons through relationships. Every person one meets is here to help the other. Roles are cast so we can experience give and take. Challenges in friendships command one to be a better person.
Have you heard of breaking the cord of attachment?
Emotions form etheric cords, energetic links, between you and other people or situations. Although some cords with children and spouses are appropriate, most of the cords we have are unhealthy and create an unbalanced dependency or co-dependency with other people.
The Connection Between Cords Of Attachment And Happiness
Anne Jones presents a healing session to assist you to let go attachments to those that are no longer in your life.