The reality is life is full of surprises!
The gateway to a new phase. The month of proposals. An offering on an emotional level or attempting a new start.
One must experience all aspects of love to truly know what the heart craves. How can one have an opinion on something if they never lived the experiences. We are in the position to meet and date, an opportunity to discover our likes and dislikes in relationships. Not all people, are compatible and there was only one way to find out. This was why one should to try to embrace what hurt teaches. The mind is telling the heart the situation would not turn out the way it is perceived to be and change is needed. The mind and heart are not in accord; a battle will be fought within, direction, reality, clear vision can be lost to the fight.
The mind doesn’t know when love is untrue. The compassion from the heart makes excuses to accept negative actions. The mind will conjure that which the heart craves.
A person can convince, program them selves to believe someone is perfect and that their heart belonged to them.
There are many reasons that people became attracted to one another. Some of the chemical reasons for behavioral responses between humans could be activated by a molecule called PEA (pheerylethlamine) that can cause stimulation between two individuals. The hormone oxytocin acts as a trigger to emotional reactions and can cause a need to be close and cuddle. Endorphins can also play a role, when stimulated there can be a feeling of utmost joy.
Understand to feel pain is a blessing in disguise. The disagreeable stimuli acts as a trigger to recognize danger, it helped to identify harm. Whatever happens one's reactions need to be loving, thoughtful and caring. Attempt to control the chemical attraction and allow the other person to be a friend. Doing this you can both grow emotionally.
the one best suited to bring out certain qualities necessary for one to emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physically grow.
There are many soul mates we will meet in our life time. The souls force us to further search through the illusions we create in our minds to help break the chains that bind. A soul mate’s role was similar to a guardian angel. They are put on the planet with us to teach lessons to be free from earthly bondage. No matter the circumstances they teach us to express ourselves with a tender heart, peaceful mind, clear vision, to master ourselves to cooperate with others.
There is a sacred bond called monogamous and the practice is that people involved make an actual pledge to love, commit and trust while both remained faithful. The individuals who join learn to understand the other’s needs and each participant will attempt to solve problems with compromise and both understand personal adjustments will have to be made. Within the committed relationship both promise to create a stable and secure atmosphere on the physical level. On the emotional level they value and respect someone as much as, if not more than, themselves.
The swans floated in the clear, blue water, their movements refined and graceful. The swan is a symbol of eternal grace, to touch sacred ground and corresponds with truth, beauty, and self-knowledge.
The balletic birds transform from a clumsy duckling to a beautiful swan as well as mate for life. For this reason swans govern higher love. Their union represents perfect balance between heart and mind. Swans have been sacred and worshiped since ancient times. The old phrase ‘the swan song’ refers to a poet’s or musician’s last work just moments before its ending. When one sees a swan, it depicts comfort, friendships, good luck, beauty, and a noble spirit. To kill a swan would surely bring death to the killer.
The morning approached, the hunter watched with sadness as the spectacular maidens placed their swan cloaks on to cover their bare breasts. Their human form was no more as each one placed a foot into the lake water. Moments later the flock flew upward and disappeared.
In secret, the swan maiden made a plan. On the next Full Moon she made her escape. When the huntsman came home he found his child playing by the open chest and felt a shiver run down his spine. His home that he believed was full of love was now overcome by emptiness. He ran outside in time to hear the “wind music.” He looked up and saw the flock overhead were paired two by two as they flew away. The huntsman from that day forth lived with his daughter. He would never marry again for his heart was lost to the elegant and refined swan maiden who was gone from him forever.
Moral of the story...
Fear increases the distances, and pursuing his partner would do good. Happiness is born of a mutual effort to move towards each other.
copyright 2016 A. Skelhorn