IN OUR ONENESS...KNOW THY SELF

We all live in a specific location. We have certain activities, we’re surrounded by certain people, and we all lead a certain kind of life. Among the people you know, your friends are very important, whether you have one or many.

First you have to know who your real friends are, and differentiate them from simple acquaintances. The best time to do that is when things get tough.

An acquaintance will always find an excuse for not helping you out, or coming to see you. But a real friend will always be there to offer comfort and come to your aid, sometimes even before you call on them!

You don’t have to wait for something terrible to happen to know who would help you when you have a problem. Think about the people around you, and those you consider your friends. Then imagine a difficult situation, and try to figure out who you’d be able to count on under such difficult circumstances.

Draw up a list of who you think your real friends are, and then be straight with them. Above all, don’t let minor arguments ruin a great friendship.

Before you start a fight with someone and say things you may regret later on, think hard and ask yourself whether the friendship you have is really worth sacrificing because you’re angry.

If the answer is no, do what’s necessary to reconcile with the other person, whose help and support you’ll need one day. Also let them know they can count on you at any time.

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YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DID,
YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DIDN'T DO,
AND YOU KNOW SOMETIMES IT DOESN'T MATTER.

One day a man's wife died, and on that clear, cold morning, in the warmth of their bedroom, the husband was struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't "anymore".  No more hugs, no more special moments to celebrate together, no more phone calls just to chat.

Sometimes, what we care about the most gets all used up and goes away, never to return before we can say good-bye, or say "I love you."

So while we have it, it's best we love it, care for it, fix it when it's broken and heal it when it's sick. 

This is true for marriage,friendships and relationships.....And old cars....And children with bad report cards, and dogs with bad hips, and aging parents and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, because we are worth it.

Some things we keep--like a best friend who moved away or a sister-in-law after divorce.  There are just some things that make us happy, no matter what.
Life is important, like people we know who are special....And so, we keep them close!

Let every one of your friends know you love them.  Even if you think they don't love you back, you would be amazed at what those three little words and a smile can do.  And just in case I'm gone tomorrow....I LOVE YA!

Live today like there’s no tomorrow because tomorrow isn’t promised.  

Higher Powers determines who walks into your  life.....it's up to you to decide who you let walk  away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.

Spirit Guide, Bless all my relatives and friends in whatever it is that You know they  may need this day! And may their life be full of your  peace, prosperity, and authentic power.   Blessed Be.